What amazed me the most when we went to traditional marriage counseling to deal with my husband’s infidelity was that instead of dealing with the issue at hand, the counselor went on a communication course rabbit path.  All aspects of the betrayal fallout was swept under the rug and communication 101 appeared to be the focus.  There is a time for communication, but when one of the parties is riddled in pain, this isn’t the time to conduct course lectures.

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